Published on mai 22nd, 2015 | by Archer0
HOW TO GRACEFULLY REJECT A GUY ONLINE
Oftentimes, girls and gays alike encounter guys who are less than stellar of what they are looking for. No matter what the situation is, there’s a good chance of having a man head over heels on you. It is very important to acknowledge that YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO REJECT HIM when it’s clear that he’s not your type for it is not wrong to do so. However, there is a thin line between exercising that right and being too harsh (a.k.a. coming off as an arrogant b*tch).
Girls and gays should also learn the ethical way of rejecting a man if he’s being too persistent. Remember, men have feelings too! Truth be told, there is no cookie cutter version of turning them down. There ain’t a perfect one-page guide for it too. But for sure, this list below can really come handy during this very awkward part of dating.
This is the first thing that you should say to a guy whose expectations are way too high. Do not condone his fantasies. Tell him straight off that you’re not very fond of his courting. Remember that at this point, be gentle.
Offer your friendship instead. We all know that for guys, this is the ultimate failure but what can we do? For us, this is the next best thing that we can give other than an intimate relationship. They should be grateful instead.
When you’ve previously tried being direct with your disinterest in a gentle way, now it’s time to be firm. Tell him clearly that no matter how he tries to court you, there is NO WAY for you to like him back.
SORRY, BUT I DON’T LIKE YOU
When you’ve already exhausted all the patience from your pocket, then there’s no reason for you to hold back anymore. Tell him that if he asks you out one more time, then you’ll hate him even more. Sometimes, you’ve got to show them your claws.
Another way to reject a guy is to pretend you’re sad. Tell him you’re not emotionally ready. Tell him you’re going through a hard time in your life right now that love is really not in the equation.
WHEN ALL ELSE FAILS
AVOID AND IGNORE HIM
When an annoying guy really starts to get on your nerves, ignore him. A guy such as this would only persist when given attention.
NEVER SPEAK TO HIM ALONE
Don’t speak with him alone. This will only give him the slightest idea that you’re still willing to give him a chance. He should have gotten the hint by now.
The most annoying part of explaining things to a guy is their habit of wanting to know the logical reason why they’re being rejected. Even if you explain it over and over, they’d still crave for more explanation. It’s a never-ending cycle. It can be very painful to deal with – I’m telling you. So, instead of being enwrapped in unwanted torture, be sure to make the rejection crystal clear. Do not go over details anymore, the shorter, the better!
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